梦缘 * 梦圆 Dream Lover, Surreal Union - 未名交友--(www.jiaoyou8.com)

情不知所起,一往而深.
生者可以死,死可以生,
生而不可与死,死而不可复生者,
皆非情之至也.
梦中之情,何必非真,天下岂少梦中人耶?　- 牧丹亭

Dream Lover - 梦缘？　

Adoration knows not how and when it is seeded.
Once it sprouts
it has a life of its own and knows no bounds
Living is dead, dead is so alive.
If what lives can not accompany what is dead,
and what is dead can not reseed and do loving thee
both have not reached the fullness of one cosmic breath

Lovers of the dream, why it has to be not real?
it is not like this world is devoid of dreamers,
so why not?
( dwell on what you have and have not? )

NPR fresh air is airing interview of former NJ governor Jim McGreavy on his new book 'Confession'

It sounded to me that Jimmy is making a make-believe case that he comes out as a 'gay' man after he realizes that the role of a father and a husband 'sucked the sweat out of dead men's balls'. I don't know his 'confession' about his first 'gay' thing, as it just so happened on his wife's delivering night, is a saving grace as he believed worth marking out to all losers like him.

But this much i know, Terry Gross knows Jimmy's score and he himself proved her unspoken judgement is wise and all listeners hear the silencing of her questioning of the unquestionable. NPR 'Fresh air' does bring something fresh out of what really stinks by all known standards.

Then, we have our Bush boy, who is all about being a father and a husband and all...But still he pleases no one, especially a Missy Jane Stillwater who wrote in her blog "Can George Bush say under oath, "I never had sex with that man..."

What possibly could be more sleazy than having the Clinton/Lewinsky affair shoved in our faces daily from the front page of the New York Times? Suddenly our children were learning new words that they had never heard before. Gross.

Now our children are learning even MORE facts of life, thanks to George W. Bush. "Military escort" is taking on a whole new meaning for them. "Mommy, what exactly does a male prostitute do?"

http://politicalhumor.about.com/library/images/blbushmonica.htm

Here's a photo of George Bush salivating over his "protege" Jeff Gannon, another White House intern. Will George Bush be able to state under oath, "I never had sex with that man...."

This Gannon affair is truly sleazy and should probably not even be discussed in public. So why am I dragging all this trash up from the gutter? Because I, as an American citizen, need to know that the kind of behavior that was sanctioned by Bush at Abu Ghraib will no longer be originating in the Oval Office -- or in the Lincoln Bedroom.

I want the White House to be a symbol of respect and dignity again.

Another lesson I have learned from the Gannon affair is this: Republican leaders are not raising a hue and cry over Jeff Gannon like they did over Lewinsky/Clinton. REPUBLICAN LEADERS are not objecting to homosexual pornography in the White House! But why should they? Judging from their behavior, many of them seem to think it is a good idea.

It appears that all too many Republican leaders don't object to homosexuality per se; they only object to gay MARRIAGE. Apparently, they aren't going to be happy until everyone is back in the closet where they "belong" -- just like in the good old days when J. Edgar Hoover dressed up in his pink chiffon tutus. For them, gay marriage is too...normal!

In addition, from what I can see, most Republican leaders -- gay or strait -- appear to revel in secrecy, clandestine operations and intrigue. Repubs seem to LOVE intrigue. That's why they invented the CIA, revel in Skull and Bones and hate the Bill of Rights. For them, DEMOCRACY is a bad thing -- and homosexuality only becomes a sin, a crime and an abomination if one steps out of the closet!

I myself forgive George Bush. He is a human being under God -- and what he does with his sex life is his business. But shilling for prostitutes and encouraging deviants -- whether in Abu Ghraib or in the White House Press Corps -- has got to stop.

**

TO BE gay or NOT TO BE is the grave question of the day.

John Donne spake it thus:

* The Dampe
When I am dead, and Doctors know not why,
And my friends curiositie
Will have me cut up to survay each part,
When they shall finde your Picture in my heart,
You thinks a sodaine dampe of love
Will through all their senses move,
And worke on them as mee, and so preferre
Your murder, to the name of Massacre.

Poore victories! But if you dare be brave,
And pleasure in your conquest have,
First kill th'enormous gyant, your Disdaine,
And let th'enchantresse Honor, next be slaine,
And like a Goth and Vandall rize,
Deface Records, and Histories
Of your own arts and triumphs over men,
And without such advantage kill me then.

For I could muster up as well as you
My Gyants, and my Witches too,
Which are vast Constancy, and Secretnesse,
But these I neyther looke for, nor professe,
Kill mee as Woman, let mee die
As a meere man; doe you but try
Your passive valor, and you shall finde than,
In that you'have odds enough of any man.

TO BE gay or NOT TO BE
TO BE merrily married or NOT TO BE,
It is NOT up to us,
our fate of love firmly lies in our lover's hands
blessed by holy ghost

Most Like an Arch This Marriage
by John Ciardi

Most like an arch - an entrance which upholds
and shores the stone-crush up the air like lace.
Mass made idea, and idea held in place.
A lock of time. Inside half-heaven unfolds.

Most like an arch - two weaknesses that lean
into a strength. Two fallings become firm.
Two joined abeyances become a term
naming the fact that teaches fact to mean.

Not quite that? Not much less. World as it is,
what's strong and separate falters. All I do
at piling stone on stone apart from you
is roofless around nothing. Till we kiss

I am no more than upright and unset.
It is by falling in and in we make
the all-bearing point, for one another's sake,
in faultless falling, raised by our own weight.

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