Friend NJ, okay, to be honestly, I have met a few guys. Nothing happened so far except they were
 quite flirty and liked to question and judge my past. I also found some people are not honest. 
But there's one guy I feel a connection, who does not judge and who respects so I really want to
 see how things develop between us, starting as friends. Giving my busy schedule, there's no way
 I can continue looking for guys nor back guys up by chatting at this time.