Your ex husband is a very shallow guy too and I don't blame you for dumping him but maybe you wa
nt to consider someone who has a bit depth like me :-) rather than falling into the same black h
ole again. By the way, please don't flatter yourself as a new yorker since you live in Jersey an
d after all are a simple country girl who lacks the sophistication of the metropolitan city. No
offense. I like simple girls. They are much easier to handle.
I could think of a love definition as the genetic call between a man and a woman. Then I discove
red your "Tale 14-15", and I chuckled at the remarks Mr.Yu made. I like your friend’s home-made
wisdom and enjoyed reading your essay. Keep thinking while exploring.
Here is my 2 cents: a younger girl tends to love a man who posses some quality she admires; an o
lder woman tends to love a man who she can share some common interests and could communicate wel
l with one another (so called synchronization).
Thanks for your comment. Ha....I tried it several times and finally came up with a formula that
works. Length does matter a lot! Hope you are getting better now.